I Asked My Girlfriend to Move In With Me – What She Did on Moving Day Shocked Me to the Core #2

When I asked my girlfriend to move in with me, I thought it would be the start of something beautiful. Instead, it was a nightmare that made me realize I should’ve never even thought about living in the same house with her.

I’m Brandon, and my life completely turned upside down two years ago when my parents died in a car accident. I was 28 then, just starting to figure out my own life, when suddenly I became responsible for my little brother Liam.

He was only 14 at the time. Just a kid who should have been worried about homework and video games, not dealing with the biggest tragedy of his life.

A teen boy standing in his room | Source: Midjourney

A teen boy standing in his room | Source: Midjourney

Those first few months were the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.

Not just losing my parents, but watching my brother struggle with grief that no kid should have to face. Liam would wake up screaming some nights, asking me why this happened to us. Why did Mom and Dad have to leave so soon? Why couldn’t things just go back to normal?

I remember sitting on his bed at 3 a.m., trying to find the right words to comfort him when I was barely holding it together myself.

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A man sitting on a bed | Source: Midjourney

“We have to be brave, buddy,” I’d tell him, even though I felt anything but brave. “Everything’s going to be okay. I promise I’ll take care of you.”

I became his legal guardian, and honestly, I had no idea what I was doing. Suddenly, I was responsible for making sure he got to school on time, ate proper meals, and had clean clothes. I was signing permission slips and going to parent-teacher conferences. It was overwhelming, but Liam needed me, and I wasn’t going to let him down.

The hardest part was watching him try to process everything.

An upset teenager | Source: Midjourney

An upset teenager | Source: Midjourney

He’d ask me questions I didn’t have answers to, like whether our parents could see us from heaven or if he’d ever stop missing them so much. All I could do was hold him and tell him that it was okay to feel sad and that we would get through this together.

After our parents passed away, we had to make some big changes.

Liam had to switch high schools because our parents lived in a different area, and he had to leave all his friends behind. That was another blow to a kid who’d already lost so much.

A school building | Source: Midjourney

A school building | Source: Midjourney

But he handled it better than I expected. He’s always been mature for his age, and losing our parents seemed to make him grow up even faster.

Two years later, I’m proud to say that Liam is thriving. He’s doing well in school, he’s made new friends, and while he still misses our parents every day, he’s learned to carry that grief more healthily.

He’s become this incredibly responsible young man who works two part-time jobs during the school year and full-time during the summer.

I wish he didn’t have to work so hard at 16, but the reality is that I can’t cover all his expenses on my salary alone.

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A man holding his wallet | Source: Pexels

He needs money for school supplies, clothes, gas for his car, and he’s trying to save up for college. It breaks my heart that he has to worry about these things at his age, but life has been unfair to him in so many ways.

Despite everything we’ve been through, Liam and I have developed this incredible bond. He’s my best friend, my roommate, and one of the strongest people I know.

A boy standing in his brother's house | Source: Midjourney

A boy standing in his brother’s house | Source: Midjourney

That’s why what happened with Melissa was so shocking. She knew how important Liam was to me. She knew our story and how hard we’d worked to build this life together.

But still, she did something that turned my world upside down.

I met Melissa at a coffee shop about a year ago. She was sitting at the table next to mine, working on her laptop, and when she dropped her pen, I picked it up for her. We started talking, and I was immediately drawn to her confidence and sense of humor. She seemed like exactly what I needed in my life.

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Two cups of coffee | Source: Pexels

“You’re really sweet,” she said when I offered to buy her coffee. “Most guys wouldn’t even notice if someone dropped something.”

We started dating pretty quickly after that. She was smart, successful in her marketing job, and seemed to genuinely care about me.

When I told her about Liam and our situation, she was so understanding. She’d nod sympathetically and say things like, “You’re such a good brother. He’s lucky to have you.”

Looking back now, I can see there were red flags, but I ignored them because I wanted the relationship to work so badly.

A man looking outside a window | Source: Midjourney

A man looking outside a window | Source: Midjourney

Like the way she’d sometimes roll her eyes when I had to cancel plans because Liam needed help with something. Or how she’d make little comments about him being “spoiled” because I did his laundry or cooked his favorite meals.

About a month ago, I decided we were ready to take the next step. I loved her, and I thought she loved me too.

So, I asked her to move in with us.

“Move in with you?” she raised an eyebrow. “What about Liam?”

“What about him?” I asked. “He lives here too. This is his home.”

A man talking to his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

A man talking to his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

She was quiet for a moment, then said, “I don’t know, Brandon. It might be weird having a teenager around all the time.”

I explained that Liam was part of the package. Eventually, she agreed, but she had one condition.

“I won’t contribute to household expenses,” she said firmly. “If I’m paying rent, it feels like I’m a tenant, not your girlfriend. Couples should be able to live together without money complications.”

I wasn’t in the best financial situation, but I agreed. I wanted to make it work, and I thought her logic made sense. Love shouldn’t be about money, right?

Money on a table | Source: Pexels

Money on a table | Source: Pexels

The night before she moved in, I talked to Liam about it. He was doing homework at the kitchen table when I sat down next to him.

“So tomorrow’s the big day,” I said. “Melissa’s moving in.”

He looked up from his math problems and smiled. “That’s cool, man. I’m happy for you. She seems nice.”

“She is,” I said. “And don’t worry, nothing’s going to change between us. We’re still brothers. Still a team.”

He nodded. “I know. I’m actually excited to have someone else around. Maybe she can teach me how to cook something besides ramen.”

A boy talking to his brother | Source: Midjourney

A boy talking to his brother | Source: Midjourney

That made me laugh. “Yeah, maybe she can.”

Moving day arrived, and I woke up feeling hopeful and nervous.

Melissa arrived at 9 a.m. with a moving truck and two guys she’d hired to help. Liam had already left for school, so it was just us and the movers. I watched as they carried box after box into our house.

“Where do you want this one?” one of the movers asked, holding a box labeled “Kitchen.”

“Just put it on the floor for now,” I said. “We’ll sort everything out later.”

Boxes in a house | Source: Midjourney

Boxes in a house | Source: Midjourney

After two hours, everything was inside.

The house looked like a warehouse with boxes everywhere. I tipped the movers, and they left us alone with all of Melissa’s stuff.

“I know it looks chaotic now,” I said, looking around at the mess, “but we’ll get it all organized.”

She smiled and wrapped her arms around my neck. “I love you, Brandon. Thank you for letting me move in.”

“I love you, too,” I said.

I looked at my watch and realized it was already noon. I wanted to do something special for our first night living together, so I made a decision.

A man standing in a house | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in a house | Source: Midjourney

“I’m going to run to the store and get ingredients for dinner,” I told her. “I want to cook something amazing for us tonight. Why don’t you rest and maybe start unpacking a few things?”

“That sounds perfect,” she said. “I’ll just tackle a few boxes while you’re gone.”

I grabbed my keys and headed out, my mind racing with plans for the evening. I was going to make her favorite pasta dish, light some candles, and maybe we’d slow dance in the kitchen afterward.

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A plate of pasta | Source: Pexels

At the grocery store, I carefully selected everything I needed. Fresh basil, good parmesan cheese, and the expensive pasta she liked.

I even picked up a bottle of wine to celebrate.

Everything had to be perfect.

The drive home took about 30 minutes, and I spent the whole time thinking about how lucky I was. I had a brother who was doing well, a girlfriend who loved me, and we were all going to be living together like a real family.

But when I pulled into our driveway, I saw something that made my heart skip a beat.

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A man holding a steering wheel | Source: Pexels

There, on our front porch, were several boxes and garbage bags.

These were the boxes Melissa had just moved in with, but now they were filled with someone else’s stuff. I could see clothes sticking out of the bags, and there was a familiar backpack sitting on top of one of the boxes.

I parked the car and got out slowly. As I got closer, I realized what I was looking at.

The boxes were all filled with Liam’s belongings. His clothes, his books, his computer, and everything that made our house his home.

Boxes and clothes on a front porch | Source: Midjourney

Boxes and clothes on a front porch | Source: Midjourney

The wine bottle slipped from my hands and shattered on the driveway.

That’s when Melissa opened the front door and stepped out, looking completely calm and unbothered by the fact that she’d just thrown my teenage brother’s entire life onto the porch.

“Oh good, you’re back,” she said casually, like nothing had happened. “I got a lot done while you were gone.”

Before I could even process what was happening, I heard footsteps on the sidewalk. Liam was walking home from school, and he stopped dead in his tracks when he saw his stuff scattered across the porch.

A boy looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

A boy looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

The look on his face is something I’ll never forget. He looked from his belongings to Melissa to me, trying to understand what was happening.

“Brandon?” he said quietly. “What’s going on?”

That’s when Melissa stepped forward and said the words that ended our relationship forever.

“Liam, honey, you’re a big boy now. You need to understand that Brandon and I are a couple, and couples need their space. You can’t keep freeloading here forever.”

I watched my little brother’s face crumble, and something inside me snapped.

“What did you just say?” I asked.

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A man standing outdoors | Source: Midjourney

Melissa crossed her arms and looked at me like I was being unreasonable.

“Brandon, be realistic,” she said. “We’re trying to start a life together. Having a teenager around all the time isn’t exactly romantic. And let’s be honest. He’s old enough to take care of himself.”

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. This was the same woman who’d told me how sweet I was for taking care of my brother. The same woman who’d said Liam was lucky to have me.

“Melissa, what the hell is wrong with you?” I said, my voice getting louder. “You can’t just throw his stuff out like he’s garbage!”

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A close-up shot of a man’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

She rolled her eyes. “I’m not throwing him out. I’m just helping him understand that it’s time to grow up. He’s 16. Most kids his age are working and contributing to their families, not freeloading.”

“Freeloading?” I exploded. “He works two jobs! He buys his own clothes and food! And even if he didn’t, he’s my brother! This is his home!”

Liam was still standing there, looking horrified. He kept staring at his belongings scattered across the porch.

A boy looking down | Source: Midjourney

A boy looking down | Source: Midjourney

“Brandon, it’s okay,” he said quietly. “I don’t want to cause problems. Maybe I should just… maybe I should find somewhere else to go.”

The defeated tone in his voice broke my heart. Here was this kid who’d already lost his parents, started over in a new school, and worked constantly to pay his own way.

And now he was being told he didn’t belong in his own home. I couldn’t let this happen.

“No,” I said firmly. “You’re not going anywhere. This is your house, too.”

An angry man | Source: Midjourney

An angry man | Source: Midjourney

I turned to Melissa, and I could feel my hands shaking with anger. “What you just did is cruel and unacceptable. Liam is my family. He’s been through enough, and I won’t let anyone treat him like he’s disposable.”

She threw her hands up in frustration. “So what, I’m supposed to come second to a kid? This is exactly what I was afraid of. You’ll never prioritize our relationship.”

“You’re right. I will never prioritize someone who would do this to my brother. Pack your stuff and get out.”

“You can’t be serious.”

“I’m completely serious. You moved in this morning, and you’re moving out tonight. I want you gone.”

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An open suitcase | Source: Pexels

“Brandon, you’re being ridiculous,” she said. “We can work this out. I was just trying to help you see that you need to set boundaries.”

“The only boundary I need to set is keeping people like you away from my family,” I said. “Start packing.”

She stood there for a moment, probably hoping I’d change my mind. When she realized I wasn’t backing down, she went inside and started throwing her stuff back into her bags and leftover boxes.

Two boxes | Source: Pexels

Two boxes | Source: Pexels

While she was packing, I walked over to Liam and started picking up his belongings.

“I’m sorry,” he said, his voice breaking. “I never wanted to cause problems between you two.”

I stopped and looked at him. “Liam, listen to me. You didn’t cause anything. She showed me who she really is, and I’m grateful I found out now instead of later.”

We spent the next hour moving his stuff back into his room.

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Clothes in a closet | Source: Pexels

When Melissa came out with her boxes, she tried one last time to change my mind.

“You’re making a mistake,” she said. “You can’t put your brother before everything else in your life forever.”

“Watch me,” I said, and held the door open for her to leave.

After she drove away, Liam and I sat on the couch, surrounded by the chaos of boxes that had been packed and unpacked three times in one day.

“You know what’s funny?” I said, trying to lighten the mood.

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A man smiling | Source: Midjourney

“What?”

“Those boxes got more action today than most people’s moving trucks see in a lifetime.”

Liam started laughing, and then I started laughing, and suddenly we were both cracking up at the absurdity of it all.

“Thanks for having my back,” he said when we finally stopped laughing.

“Always,” I said. “We’re a team, remember?”

Looking back now, I realize Melissa did me a favor. She showed me that anyone who can’t accept and love my brother isn’t someone I want in my life.

We’re better off without her.

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